They see me as a loser because I am not conforming to the marriage scoresheet. I don't belong to their club.
Well, everyone's relationship experience is different. In my situation, I prefer to be Juliane Potter in My Best Friend's Wedding than Mary Fiore in The Wedding Planner. Does this preference make me a loser? Not necessarily. If I took the initiative and had to break up "michael" and "kimmy" about to walk down the aisle in order to gain my mediocrity happiness, then I would be a real loser.
So, for happiness's sake, please don't misjudge me using the conformity ruler. I will settle down one day when I really found The One. No pressure. No rush. With plans.
To end today's post, I cut and pasted my favourite quote from My Best Friend's Wedding:
Choose me. Marry me. Let me make you happy. Oh, that sounds like three favours, doesn't it?