Find Wisdom In Irritation

According to Chin-Ning Chu, the author of Do Less, Achieve More (HarperCollins Publishers, 1998), Lord Buddha said, "When one refuses to take in the negative criticism from the abuser, then his gift of viciousness will be returned and absorbed by he who handed out the criticism". 

How hateful a person towards others will determine how hateful his mind will be to him in equal dosage.